Hello and welcome to Dating by Divine Design. I acknowledge you for taking the time to explore ways to make your relationship goal a reality.
For many years I wondered aimlessly searching for answers to my burning questions about life and love. I experienced many relationship challenges and discoveries. Some of these were joyous, many, however were incredibly painful. Throughout these discoveries, I’ve learned one main truth. The love we seek lives within us.
This was a tough realisation to uncover. I had always believed that I was only valuable if someone else approved of me. When relationships came to an end, I believed this meant I was not lovable, I had something wrong with me and I didn’t deserve to be loved!
You may relate to some of what I’m expressing here.
After one of my relationships ended in 2005, I went on a spiritual quest to find the answers to why this kept happening. I hired a relationship coach and discovered where I wasn’t valuing and loving myself. This was the main reason behind my choices in love.
During an emotional conversation with my coach, I shared how I wished I had known all of this information when I was younger. I felt it could have saved me a lot of pain, time and suffering! I decided to make it my mission to learn as much as I could about relationships and focus on living my best life.
Within two years of completing my coaching, I met someone who I would spend the next 9 years in relationship with. We had such a strong emotional and spiritual connection, I believed I had found the person I would spend my life with.
During our time together, I qualified as a relationship coach for singles, traveled to America to train as a relationship educator and developed an intuitive approach to the service I provide to those looking for love. I’ve helped many individuals on their journey to finding love, whether in the form of a relationship with another or a knowing and love of themselves.
Over the years, I’ve been interviewed on radio, podcasts and appear in the feature length documentary “Looking for Love.” I’ve featured in several anthologies, where I share my personal journey and knowledge about love and relationships.
During our relationship, we overcame many challenges and grew stronger together as a result. However, some unexpected life events created a painful separation that we were unable to recover from.
The sudden shock of this unwanted separation caused me to once again look within for the answers to how this had happened. I discovered even more truths about myself, our relationship and a renewed thirst for knowledge was born.
During this period of separation, I began to look even deeper within. My spiritual practice deepened and I grew in faith.
My desire for knowledge, wisdom and truth brought me to my knees. In an evening of prayer and meditation, Dating by Divine Design was created.
At first, I was reluctant to share this programme. I believed that I was a failure. I told myself I couldn’t share this information with others. My relationship history was tainted. How could I step out into the world and share about love and relationships, when my relationship was over?
After many conversations with God and various close friends, I realised that I had been given a task. I had been given a Divine mission to complete. The question was no longer “Who am I to do this?” It was now “Who am I not to do this?”
It is my signature programme, that will develop and grow as I mature in spiritual faith and wisdom.
My desire for you is that this information and process will equip you with the tools, power, confidence, knowledge and wisdom to create the life you’ve always wanted. I offer decades of personal experience and wisdom, I’ve spent thousands of pounds on training and countless hours deepening my knowledge. Working with me means you won’t have to go through the trials and tribulations I’ve been through to learn what I’ve discovered and lose precious time on your quest of finding that perfect love you seek.